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Speaking as a white woman who is dating an Indian guy, I just wanted to add my two cents on this. It is very likely that a white girl would be interested in you.

Social Issues. Tweet about this Share this on Facebook. Whiteness, much like gender, is a performance. My experience of the dating scene here in the UK as a brown man from the subcontinent has mostly been negative, and I think my lack of performative whiteness is the problem. There have been several instances when my politeness was mistaken for an unwarranted advance. This has taken a severe toll on my self-perception, often to the extent of paranoia.

This has been proven to me multiple times. For example, a white girl I was briefly seeing made several borderline offensive comments while we were flirting. Will they accept me? Will your community shame you? She said these things quite unabashedly and I chose to ignore them maybe because she was right. This is not to suggest that brown men have it the worst.